Thursday, May 3, 2018

two toddlers, five gerbils and a stuffed bat


58 comments:

whitznd said...

Wow! Someone to be proud of? I think not. I'll be glad to see the end of this current nightmare.

listener said...

I'll be glad right alongside you, Barb!

Thanks for a new thread puddle. As it has himself in the photo, I'll bookmark this one and skip straight to the posts.

The day got away from me. We had a little excitement this evening when one of our kitties came traipsing through the living room with a mouse in her mouth. We managed to rescue the mouse and set it free. Hopefully it will stay off the back porch after this, because, after all, they are indoor cats save for the screened back porch! Silly mouse.

No more back porch time for the kitties after dark. Silly kitties.


Shirlee Murphy said...

Thanks for the new thread, Puddle......we need to be reminded how physically and mentally
childish our current leader? is! I have a small bandage back on my cheek because the
earliest wound was beginning to drain again. Brenda found some lighter weight tape
not so irritating to the skin.

Puddle, I just had to have two types of blood samples drawn as part of the
requirement for the RA doc. Results came back to the docs and to me..
one part included a liver function test...mine was just fine. Hospice people had been
worried because I take two extra strength Tylenol every four hours around the clock.
Hospice nurses have been warning me too much T. HA! For now...perhaps if I were
Going to be on it for years it might be a problem....but that sure ain’t gonna happen!
Good to be right for once. Love to all!

puddle said...

Holly Povlsen Johnson, Deaniac of southern Illinois who retired and moved to Hawaii, has evacuated her home due to lava flow down the street next to her home. Looks likely they'll lose it. Light, prayers, etc. I'm sure would be welcome. yikes

Pat said...

Hi Listener, Shirlee, Barb, and Puddle. Yes, I've been listening to NPR and watching clips on Facebook about the volcanic explosions. I know people in that area also. I'm so sorry for them and I hope there will be no injuries. The Kilauea volcano is the most active on the planet.

Thinking of you, Shirlee, and hoping you are pain free and resting. You are in my prayers every day.

I just can't stand hearing every news cycle about Trump. Some reporter remarked that we are living in reality his TV show, The Apprentice. AARGH.

I do think spring may be arriving. Pasque flowers in meadows, abundant, and I saw my first larkspur today, only one, but beautiful blue violet.

listener said...

Great to see you back here, Shirlee!! I use the lighter tape too. It makes a big difference.


Ohhhhh, puddle, I am so sad for HollyJ~!!

Any word on whether she has insurance? Would it even cover this??? What are her options?

Please tell her I know an Episcopal priest on the big island, if that might help at all.

listener said...

Mizzen and Spinnaker had an excellent checkup at the Vet today! Both are super healthy kitties, from teeth to weight to lungs!! Pretty amazing given their rough beginning 6 years ago. They were glad to get home from their vet visit today. We were glad too, as they are very vocal back seat drivers!

listener said...

Saw this as a featured post:

Today, Melania Trump announced her new agenda, focused on children's health and well being.

Also today, DT asked Congress to cut $7 billion from the Children's Health Insurance Program.

Seriously.
https://www.washingtonpost.com/business/economy/trump-calls-on-congress-to-pull-back-15-billion-in-spending-including-on-childrens-health-insurance-program/2018/05/07/9427de18-5216-11e8-a551-5b648abe29ef_story.html?noredirect=on&utm_term=.6f963b8a88e5

Shirlee Murphy said...

Hi, ladies...still here...just going with the Flow! This week my oldest daughter and
husband will stop on their way from their winter quarters in Florida back to their
big, old house on Lake Erie.

All power is back on after the tornado, but the hardest hit parts of the city are still
being cleaned up.

Love to all.


listener said...

So very glad that Greensboro is coming back together after the tornado, Shirlee! It's a really big deal! I read that the winds were 135mph! WOW!! That's a high end EF2, almost an EF3.

Where along Lake Erie? We lived in the Erie area for a year just after college. We saw thousands of Monarch butterflies feeding out on Presque Isle. Amazing.



Mueller's team questions Russian oligarch about payments to Cohen worth half a million dollars.
https://www.cnn.com/2018/05/08/politics/robert-mueller-russian-oligarch-payments-michael-cohen/index.html

listener said...

Today I was called upon to take care of my 5 year old grandson and 2 1/2 year old granddaughter, so their parents could go together to a doctor appointment. DIL has been having high blood pressure issues, which is a complication in the pregnancy. Hoping she can make it 2 1/2 more months, but my goodness her belly is huge already. I asked if they are sure of the dates and they said they are. Our vet is due for her baby next month and her belly is much smaller than our DIL's. So many normal sizes, of course. They just want to get to week 37+ so there's no need for an NICU. Prayers cherished. 💖

listener said...

Error! I intended to write that our vet's baby is due next WEEK, not next month!


listener said...

Today was expected to be: sleeping in, planting Irises before the afternoon heat, another trip to Mini Service to get my car's tail/brake light working, then a bit of this and that, mostly Tai Chi, elliptical, silence, prayer, reading, and some light housework.

It turned out to be: sleeping in, meeting my pregnant DIL and little grands at the Kids Gym, planting the Irises just before the sun hit their spot, getting the tail/brake light fixed, then stopping to pick out the cloth for the next Grandbaby Quilt! Made it home just in time to make dinner.

Tonight I will make Mother's Day cards for my Daughter and three Daughters-in-Law.

Tomorrow is expected to be: Tai Chi class, complete and mail Mother's Day cards, heavy duty housework, and please oh please some Silence and open spaces.

I was really happy to be invited to the Gym, though!! I even got some stellar photos! I wish I could share them with a FB link like I've done in the past, but FB no longer allows me to make albums. I can only post photos to my Timeline, and that doesn't offer a link. Phooey.

Pat said...

Oh Listener, you are amazing with your gifts of love and efforts. I'm smiling to know how much good you do and you do it. May you have the space and rest you need on the way.

Hoping your DIL's pregnancy goes well and her blood pressure issues are controlled.

Hi Shirlee, it's good to hear from you and how much your family cares for you. I hope
your daughter's visit is wonderful.

I think of Hawaii every day. It's a dire situation, and my heart goes to people who are suffering with losses and emergencies.

A warm cloudy day to day. I'll join my sons and their families for Mother's Day. I'm grateful for family. Now I have to learn to live with myself. There's always something to learn. I'm glad to be here with you. Love to you all.

Shirlee Murphy said...

Still hanging in here, folks! Just dealing with the small infections that pop up
on the cancer, burst, drain, heal and start over again. Just annoying, but
Brenda tends them carefully between nurse visits.

I had a nice visit from my favorite book dealer in town. My apartment was
Just down Elm street from his store. He opened in 2014 and carries a.
very good selection of new titles...and a section of used. Now planning
a Greensboro literary festival with major authors in to read/speak for
this summer. It was good to see him again ...and get the latest on the book
world in Greensboro.

Listener, my daughter and husband have houses in Marblehead, Ohio
on the south side of the lake. They know they had some damage in the basements,
but have contractors to check on problems when they are gone.

Thank you all for your good wishes, always! So good to hear what is
happening in your lives.

Love to all.

puddle said...

Yesterday was pretty much one of those days from hell, painwise. My perfectly functional left knee, able and painfree took a vacation, and this knot of hot, sharp, searing pain took it's place. Now if I just sat, and played on the computer, it pretended to be the old knee. But if I got up to, say, go pee, or let the dog in and out, or make food, pain arrived on giant knife feet and took over the limb and my whole life. Started on the outside of the leg, above and below the knee, and the nets assured me that it was a messed up ITband. How I did that the nets and myself could not scope out, but there it was. Later, it migrated to include the knee itself, both sides and middle.

I moved to my biggol 2 dollar painkillers that I have been hoarding for years. The merest edge was shaved from the pain. Long and short of it, I fed the dog, let him in and out several times, didn't pee myself, and got food two times. Late in the day remembered what I'd got the emu oil for in the first place. Got a couple of slathers before bedtime, and several over night, and feel much better today. Only a slight twinge left, and I'm being very careful.

I'd *really* like never to have another day like that. Evah.

listener said...

Ohhh, ouch!! Please keep us posted, daily, on how you are, puddle. ❤️💜💙

I sure wish pain had never been invented...!!

I know it warns us about important matters, but once we've got the message, couldn't it at least ease up? Why haven't we evolved in that area, I wonder.

listener said...

Our niece, whose mom just died, was to have a bilateral mastectomy today, but no. They are trying to quell an infection first. Sigh.

She's the mother of our 16 year old great-niece who died a year and a half ago. Think there've been any stress factors in her illness? Heh.

listener said...

On Friday I drive an hour to two spiritual guidance meetings. I'm looking forward to it. Such a holy trust.

On Thursday 5 of us from Tai Chi class met and practiced together. Our instructor couldn't be there as she was teaching Tai Chi to nurses, in a mini workshop. Basically, she was showing them how to remember to breathe. I'm so glad she did that!

listener said...

Oh, Shirlee, I posted about our niece having an infection before reading your note about your own. Cancer wreaks havoc with the immune system, making it harder to heal. I hope yours is quelled soon and fully!

So good that your family have help in time of weather's surprises! 💛


Pat, I am always grateful for the way you write to each of us with words of encouragement. What a kind soul you are! ❤️

And what a wonderful place Jo created for us here, and puddle tends so sweetly! There is something deep in this place. We come here and we share about what is really going on in our lives, our story. It's biography real-time, a journal of our lives, and here we are intersected and sharing and being uplifted by one another's presence. And most of us have never met. It just tickles my joy! 💖


Dear puddle, thank you for tending us with such grace. And, again, do keep us posted on your well being. May you never be revisited by that wicked pain! 💜

listener said...

I chipped a lower tooth in March. Saw the dentist and we decided it was tiny and would smooth itself over. It has..five times...then a new chip has happened each time. Decided I'd best call the dentist and sure enough another tooth lost a big chunk. (it's genetics.) So I have to go to the dentist on Monday instead of having an unfettered painting day...! SIGH. I may have to settle for two half days.

That is, if I can find the canvas I'm looking for. Ha! I started a painting of irises some years ago, and would like to finish it. So far it has purple irises, but some are supposed to be yellow as well. So I need to find a florist which has yellow irises, and I really need to find that canvas! I know it is in a box and I know what the box looks like, but it has so far eluded me.

So we'll see what I end up with.

listener said...

🌷🌼🌿 Vermont is officially without snow. 😃👍
http://www.wcax.com/content/news/Notch-Road-opens-for-the-season-482312791.html

puddle said...

Day two totally pain free. I *wish* pain had some purpose, but for me, it sure doesn't seem to. The illnesses that really might have killed me came pain free. Have NO idear what that day of pain was all about; glad it's gone gone gone. And bless all the emus who have given up their lives in the name of keeping others pain free.

listener said...

So glad the pain has stayed away, puddle!!

Pat said...

Good Morning,
A rainy, cool day here, but so good to see the grasses greening and the wildflowers. I've never seen so many pasque flowers, must be hundreds.

I'm sorry to hear of your overwhelming pain, Puddle. I think pain is one of the hardest things we deal with. I'm glad it has abated. Sometimes I wake up in the night feeling cramps. I go downstairs, take to Gas X pills, and go into the bathroom. I may go up and down the stairs several times, and then it abates. I'm grateful for Tums and Gas X.

I'm reading for the third time a small book called, The Way of the Small by Michael Gellert, and it inspires and comforts me. Wonderful quotes throughout: "Forgiveness is the fragrance the violet sheds on the heel that has crushed it." Mark Twain.

I'm smiling, hoping you have found your painting, Listener, and can finish it. How wonderful to have such talent.

And Shirlee, how pleasant to talk with the bookseller neighbor. Books are people in my perception, revealing life stories, ideas, experiences, and feelings. I think of you daily.

Brenda Jane said...

Hi Ladies.

Brenda here for Shirlee. She is busy chowing down on a nightly dessert.

Puddle, so sorry for your pain and mom is curious about the emu oil? Where do you get it and what kind of pain is it good for?

Pat, love the quote by Mark Twain, thanks. I'm not sure I know what a pasque flower is, will have to go google it!

Listener, you are correct this is an awesome space for everyone to connect with, a great way to stay involved on a personal level.

Happy Mothers Day to all

Brenda and Shirlee

listener said...

🌻💖 H A P P Y 🌹💖 M O T H E R ' S 💖🌼 D A Y 💖🌷!!!

Especially to you, Shirlee, as you have been a mom the longest here.

I too love the Mark Twain quote! Perfect! Yes, books are some of my best friends. And some of them were written by dear friends!

And YES!! I found the painting!!! Hurrah! Hurrah! Only, now I can't find a single florist with yellow irises to sell. So, if I want to finish it, I will have to settle for using photographs. Hmmm.



listener said...

How are you spending your Mother's Day?

I am getting up (in 6 hours! eek!). We plan to go to church, then have a picnic, visit the Shelburne Museum (google it!), then go to Root*Center*Son's house...whereat I will change into jeans and weed in the gardens while the guys screw together his raised beds. After that we are going to roast potatoes and possibly Applegate hot dogs at the bonfire ring, to have with salad. Must get to bed! Ha!

puddle said...

Emu oil is available at pretty much any health food type store. I get mine on Amazon. It's important to get 100%. Lots out there just pretending. If it's clear, it's NOT emu oil. 100% "pure" does NOT mean 100% emu. Alas. Real emu oil is a creamy white. And disappears into skin very quickly.

My stories--in 2002, I was having a huge arthritis flare up, both knees, lots of pain. And trying *everything*--oral and topical for the pain. All the icy/hots and blue slather ons. Came down the pike this new stuff, New Blue Emu. . . . So got it. AND. It actually worked, *significantly* better than any of the other blues. Checking ingredients, the only difference was the emu oil, and it was only about 7 or 8 percent of the formula. So headed off to the health food store, and asked if they had 100% emu oil. At the time it was about $20 for 8 ounces. Now often twice that. Never used it for anything but inflammation, not as a face or skin cream, not for scars, not for hair. Just pain.

About that time, was driving by my local emu ranch, and he was at the gate, so stopped to talk with him. He said on harvest day, the local farmers, old guys, would come to help. And every year, one or another would say at the end of the day of harvesting fat pads from emus backs, how amazingly good their hands felt. . . .

listener said...

Thinking of you, Shirlee. 💖

Brenda Jane said...

Hi Ladies!

Here is a link of the video montage that one of my sisters put together for mom for Mother's Day. She thought you might enjoy watching it. A motley collection of Friends And Family.

https://youtu.be/PRiET0kwwRM

Brenda

Pat said...

Thank you, Brenda. What a delightful, warm, and loving expression of love. A beautiful tribute.

listener said...

Wow! What a *gorgeous* expression of LOVE!!

I so enjoyed seeing everyone, especially Owen, Brady, Nora & Sleepyhead, and most especially of all your lovely songbird at the end!! She must be a professional musician...what talent!!

You must be the proudest Mom around, Shirlee! Look at all you created and made possible!! WELL DONE!! ✨💖✨

listener said...

Hurrah! I found my easel! 😃👍
At last I can play with my oil paints again! 🎨

Pat said...

YEA.

puddle said...

Brenda, so wish I could watch youtube! Alas.

Just came off of 50 hours without phone or electricity. Direcho. And a wasp bite while lying on my own pillow in my own bed in the dark. The *second* time in my life that has happened. What are the chances? Ever try to hunt down a wasp with a flashlight?

listener said...

I still remember the day my daughter found a mistake in the Saxon Math Algebra book, called the number in the book, and John Saxon answered. He told her she was right, and they were planning to fix it in the next edition. (I sometimes muse that that's the day she became a math major.)

I had a moment sort of like that tonight. Not as writ large, but significant nonetheless. I found an error in my Tai Chi teacher's list of moves for the 3rd Level form. And tomorrow is our last class.

Every time I tried to do what the list said, I felt confused, because I could not make out how I could go from the move I was on to the next move on the list, with any grace. 🙃 So I looked at the video of Dr. Paul Lam doing the form and he seemed to go straight from the move I was on to the one after the one on the list. I sent a note to inquire.

My teacher just wrote back saying I was "absolutely right" and "I'm glad someone is keeping me honest!" 😃 Feels pretty good to find that I understand the whole of the advanced form at last! 😊 Imagine that! 😮

listener said...

Yikes, puddle. Let's not repeat THAT 24 hours! 😓

So glad that's behind you!!! 💗

listener said...

Wait! 50 hours!!

listener said...

Those darn derechos are mean. I always picture them being like a row of wild west cowboys, ready to draw.

listener said...

Sorry to be so slow and piecemeal here. And I'm not even multi-tasking! Ha!

But just wanted to add that the wasp was the last straw. My goodness, talk about not fair! Maybe that little fellow was just as combobulated in the dark and didn't know it was on your pillow? Did you get stung on your face? ROUGH!!! XOXOXOX

listener said...

🌟 YES!!! 🌟

From Patrick Leahy:

On Wednesday: "the Senate voted to restore net neutrality and ensure a free and open internet.
"The Senate, including three Republican senators, voted to end the repeal of regulations that kept the internet an equal platform. And it's all because you spoke out, took action, and showed that you refused to allow big internet companies to make more money just to make the playing field uneven for the rest of us."

listener said...

Senators COLLINS, KENNEDY and MURKOWSKI broke with the GOP on the issue.
https://gizmodo.com/senate-votes-to-save-net-neutrality-proving-shame-stil-1826054197

Pat said...

Hi friends,
Chilly, wet day here. I've spent most of my time reading. Hope everyone is fine. I think of you all.

puddle said...

After they fixed the electric, phone on/off for two days, and totally out till about five minutes ago. May go out again. Don't call Sheriff Chuck. What a helluva week!

Pat said...

OOOHHHH! Sorry that you have to endure these breakdowns. Years ago when the electricity went out, it was less onerous. Now, so much is connected and our sense of normalcy and safety is part of it.

But, glad to hear from you.

Another rainy, cool day here, but we need the rain.

Brenda Jane said...

Hi Ladies!

Mom says to tell you we are still here fighting the good fight. Had a visit this weekend from my brother Gary and his wife Cindy, from MI.. Good to see them. Mom didn't realize how many cookies Gary could eat over the course of a weekend, for a skinny guy he can put them away!

Rainy and warm here this weekend. Good to wash away all of the pollen!

Talk to you soon.

Brenda. And Shirlee

Pat said...

Hi Shirlee and Brenda. I'm glad that you are maintaining and fighting. We think of you.

I'm wondering when and if Trump and his coterie will be tried for treason. I hope so. It can't get any worse, or could it?

Sunny, warmer day here. Have a good day today.

listener said...

Halllllllooooooo!!!!

I was in NH all weekend for an important (and overnight) family gathering. We got home Sunday night. Then on Monday I had a peer meeting ... in NH. Drove "there and back again" and convened the meeting too.

I am ready to sleep in tomorrow, then have a guidance meeting, then dash off to deliver my DIL's birthday present.

listener said...

I am so grateful to you, Shirlee, and Brenda as well, for sharing with us as you fight the good fight. I know I need to understand how to do that. Your tips and suggestions would be cherished. And all the more YOU are cherished!!

🌸💜🌸

listener said...

NYTimes: Opinion: Stop Giving DT the Benefit of the Doubt
https://www.nytimes.com/2018/05/21/opinion/trump-benefit-korea-summit.html?action=click&module=Trending&pgtype=Article&region=Footer&contentCollection=Trending

puddle said...

Failed to mention I got a doc's visit and blood work in the dark last week. Phone stay up long enough to get results. Blood work is fine, they didn't even bother to do an A1c, I've been so good for so long. AND I lost five pounds again. Wish it weren't the same five pounds as before.

Saw an article posted by a Dr. friend on facebook, that losing 15 kilos has a very good chance of backing me out of pre-diabetic. . . . So am going to try for it. Also less to lug around on a daily basis.

listener said...

YAH, puddle! I believe it!! I lost 12 lbs and my A1c dropped. But I think that's mostly from cutting out sugar.

listener said...

"Wish it weren't the same five pounds as before."


This made me laugh, even though I've been there!

puddle said...

Beau made another great escape last night/this morning. Just broke the collar, leaving the D ring on the end of the cable, and collar on his neck. Blessedly, I didn't know until he came in, betrayed by his hope for cheese and a warm bed. He scratched at the door, I went to let him in, showed him the cheese and he literally *burst* into the house, soaking wet. I went to unhook him, and realized he wasn't hooked at all. Ordered new collar on Amazon, due Friday, and meanwhile I need to jury rig one of his old collars to last until then. Something involving wire. Whew.

And another wasp, one of the big slow, GIANT slow, in the bathroom, dead now, but am only entering there armed with black flag. Involved him/her landing on my hand, being brushed away (instinct is strong), being stepped on and then poisoned. Epi-pen and benadryl on the way from the round last week. Did I mention I'm damned sick and tired of this? AM.

listener said...

Gosh, puddle, isn't this at least the 3rd time da Boy has busted an industrial strength collar? Silly fellow doesn't know his own strength. All passion, that dog.

The critters around you aren't doing you any favours lately!! Let me know when that epi-pen arrives so I can exhale.
Love you. ♥

puddle said...

Maybe the 8th or 9th time. Keep looking for a better design. Have one on the radar now where the D ring is on top of the collar, and UNDER the full width of the leather, and no rivets. And it's thick leather.

And yes, his hatred of whoever is traipsing around the far field is enormous and unending. Very different from *people* whom he loves arriving, then he just dances. . . .

puddle said...

New thread!!