Tuesday, July 10, 2018

Librarians of the Light






















Shirlee Ann Murphy 
February 20, 1934 - July 02, 2018 


66 comments:

Pat said...

Good Morning,

Hello Shirlee in our hearts and minds. A beautiful photo, and memories of so many posts and discussions. Thank you for all you shared with us.

Thank you, Puddle, for posting her photo.

puddle said...

This is lovely. . . .

https://www.thesunmagazine.org/issues/478/the-geography-of-sorrow

listener said...

❤️Thank you so much, puddle! 💛 I know it took your four hours to get that to post!! 💜

"Long walk part of gift."

listener said...

*took you

puddle said...

I do okay here. But they've changed the posting page so much that sometimes I wanna scream, lol! I can't remove the extra spaces between the pic and the words--If I try, the words show up at the side of the pic. I work both in WYSIWYG and plain script. I move back and forth between the two. Won't talk about trying to upload pics. Whew!

Pat said...

Good Morning,

I subscribe to The Sun Magazine, and I think it is unique. Out front, without advertising, well written and well edited literature, essays, and photographs, it's the most real writing I read. Thank you, Puddle, for posting the URL. I read it, and it rings true.

Still hot here with a dozen wildfires in Colorado, though where I am doesn't have any now. I hope your day is good.

listener said...

Trump forced to reinstate 'catch and release' after court defeats
https://www.theguardian.com/p/9x75y

Jo_in_Vermont said...

Thank you puddle, what a lovely photo! My love and sympathy to Shirlee's family and to you, my friends. She was such a beautiful part of this group. <3

Brenda Jane said...

Good evening ladies!

Thank you all for your kind words, wishes and healing thoughts.

It's been a busy week of planning two Celebrations of Shirlee and organizing some of her stuff. As you can imagine she subscribed to a LOT of political blogs, mail lists and groups. I opened her email last night and there were over 700 emails! As they say how do you eat an elephant, one bite at a time. One email at a time, I'll slowly get her unsubscribed.

So be thinking of us on July 31st from 6-9pm. The Greensboro Celebration of Shirlee will happen at Scuppernong Books in Greensboro. This is the bookstore 1/2 block from her apartment, she loved going there as much as possible. Brian, the owner, loved her dearly and offered the store for a gathering. We'll drink some wine, eats some tasty appetizers, talk, laugh, tell stories and browse some books I'm sure. Dana, my sister from Cincinnati is coming down for this. Along with all of our Greensboro friends.

Then on August 12, from 1-4, my siblings and I along with a few grand kids, mom's brother and SIL, a few nieces and nephews and Vic's family will gather for a family get together. Dana and I found a airBNb not far from where everyone is located in MI. It has enough room for a gathering and the hosts are being very accommodating. It will be good to see everyone together!

Mom would say, to keep up the good fight and stay focused on getting the repubs out!

Much love.

Brenda

Pat said...

Thank you, Brenda. The celebration at Scuppermong Books sounds wonderful, just wonderful. I'm smiling.

And, your family get-together also. Thank you again for keeping us connected, for sharing with us.

Love and thoughts, and a hug.

listener said...

What fitting tributes to our dear Shirlee!! My goodness, Brenda, what a lot of work for you!!!
I hope you will find time to simply be and grieve and remember and smile....unfettered by responsibilities.

We will most assuredly keep fighting the good fight!

Shirlee would have loved knowing that since my Daughter-in-Law had to spend 24 hours in hospital for monitoring of her pregnancy DURING the 48 hour Nurses Strike, she wore a red dress (red being the colour those on the picket line are wearing) and brought along a Bernie action figure to keep by her bed, because Bernie has been supporting the nurses on strike!!!

Happily, she got through it, and all is well with the baby. [Grandbaby is due in nearly mid-August, but will probably be born in about two weeks.] I was so very impressed to read how many grands, great grands and more Shirlee had!! WOWSER! What a legacy! 💖

listener said...

Well, I may have spoken too soon. DIL's BP won't behave. This birth may have to happen so early that the baby starts out in the NICU. :-( Mama has been trying SO hard to avoid that!! Please hug us all in your prayers.

Also, I didn't mention that yesterday both the baby's older siblings were sick. I was tending them and Brother (5) had a headache and sore throat. Sister 2.5) had a fever and sore throat. And today she threw up. I sure hope none of us adults gets this! Especially DIL!!!

puddle said...

Cooter was due at the end of July, but was born on the 15th, 7 lbs 11 oz, and a head so big the doc said if he'd been born on time, he might not have gotten through the birth canal! As it was took him nearly 24 hours to make that journey, and the skull plates were so far overlapped they made big ridges on his head for months after. Glad we've come so much further down that track that we can keep a better eye on this stuff. And, yes, minny hugs!!

Brenda, stole the pic from your mom's obit, but if you'd like to send more, I'll gladly add them!

listener, our comments finally showed up in the guest book, so thanks for that!

puddle said...

This from my sister and her hubby who got made t-shirts with "Cousins Camp" on them. . . .

Perkins Cousin Camp for 2018 is in the books. First day a trip to Payson Lakes, here Nenna (the youngest) pulls out the largest trout. Next a trip to Darby's barn where everyone had a chance to ride Dallas (her horse) around the arena. Day two a hike to the Grotto and a visit to Pioneer Village in Provo. Day three was circus day with our very own circus with a very handsome (if not hot) gorilla. We had carnival games with prizes and all the adults came to play and enjoy in the carnival food. Bottom line; lots of fun memories, fun times with our grandchildren from 4 to 12, and two exhausted grandparents.

They have 20 grands in all. So not counting babies and teens it was about a dozen campers.

listener said...

I'm taking notes, puddle!! WE could do that!!!

How did they transport that many? Did a few of the parents help or did they rent a bus?

listener said...

Glad to hear we got posted, puddle!!

Yah, my third baby got stuck at the shoulders. A 180 degree change of position dislodged him. He was about 11 days overdue and weighed 10lbs, 2oz.

This baby will be born cesarean, but not because of mechanics. Mama gets pre-eclampsia at the end.

The littles are feel much better tonight and Mama's doc told her to stop taking her blood pressure so often. As long as it goes back down when she lies down, she's considered okay. So, so far, so good!

listener said...

*feeling

puddle said...

She's an antiques dealer and has a big van. Plus they had 10 kids, so are experts at moving tons of kids around, lol!

listener said...

ROFL!!!

Awesome!!

listener said...

Inside the Founding Fathers’ Debate Over What Constituted an Impeachable Offense
https://www.smithsonianmag.com/history/inside-founding-fathers-debate-over-what-constituted-impeachable-offense-180965083/

listener said...

Did you call your Congress members today? I did. Good people in each office answered the phone right away, heard my concerns, and were wonderful. I tried to also call Speaker Paul Ryan's office (4 times). I got a recording saying that to have my voice heard I should listen to the following options, each being to choose to hear Speaker Ryan's views on something or other. It ended with a message that my message cannot be taken at this time and I should call again later. You can bet your bootstraps I will!
(202) 225-3031
Hot tip: To skip the lengthy message and go straight to VoiceMail, press 6. Good luck.

Speaker Ryan
H-232 The Capitol
Washington, DC 20515
Phone: (202) 225-0600
Fax: (202) 225-2012
Maybe send faxes so they can really feel the heap of messages!

I called the 0600 number too, and got the exact same message as the 3031 number. Bah!


I wrote him an email. I hope he gets flooded with them!

Dear Mr. Speaker,
I am a grandmother and very concerned. On Monday I heard our President give comfort to our enemy, instead of standing with Americans and the US Intelligence that came out only Friday. Given that we are in a cyber war with Russia, and our elections and democracy are on the line [and I do not say this lightly] I see this as treasonous. I can hardly believe I am having to write this message! As an American citizen, I insist that Congress immediately invoke the 25th Amendment. I tried to call your office multiple times today but you are not accepting messages. Please stand up for Americans! We need leadership and we need it now.

https://paulryan.house.gov/contact/email.htm

whitznd said...

Thank you Puddle for the lovely picture of Shirlee. And such a fitting title. I will miss her voice here. Thank you, Brenda for the update on her Celebrations. I'll be thinking of her at those times. Condolences to all of her loved ones.





listener said...

Hallo all and each. Today I took care of my 5 yr old grandson and 2 yr old granddaughter, all day. We had a BLAST and I actually didn't get tired, though how that could be possible I have no idear! We spent three and a half hours at a museum, riding the carousel, looking a hand carved circus train (really long!!), a real train, a paddlewheeler, and a play space. After that we came back to my house and played here.

I get to do much the same sort of thing on Friday!

Mama's cesarean is scheduled for Monday and I'm just trying to help her get from here to there. So far, so good!

Pat said...

Hi Listener, What fun with your grandkids, and how much you give. You are an inspiration.

Another hot day here, in the 90's. This weekend maybe some rain. Still working on purging my library and stuff. I'm amazed at the accumulation. I wasn't aware, I think, for at least ten years.

Talking to my sons, I've decided to call almost every day. My parents' generation told us family stories, and we were in proximity. Not so our children. I've decided that with daily or at least frequent conversations, I'll tell family stories. I'm sorry we were so busy that we didn't do more of this.

Hope everyone is well. And, oh the news. I find it doleful, anxiety provoking, and mystifying. How did we get here, and will we be able to overcome this dreadful, disastrous polarity and blindness to the execrable Trump? Love to you all.

listener said...

"Carole Cadwalladr's investigation into Cambridge Analytica's role in Brexit led her to Russian connections and the Trump campaign. She says British investigators are working 'closely with the FBI.'"

Please take a half hour and listen to Thursday's Fresh Air with Terry Gross. Much of this information has just come out. Part of what was hidden in Britain came out only Sunday.

https://www.npr.org/2018/07/19/630443485/reporter-shows-the-links-between-the-men-behind-brexit-and-the-trump-campaign

listener said...

Ah, Pat, thank you for the idear to share our stories more with our family! In fact, along with calling, see if you can record the stories, so that they can be shared *in your voice* with generations to come!!

puddle said...

listener, my sister's blog about Cousins Camp--

https://pollyanna-reinvents.blogspot.com/2018/07/cousin-camp-fun.html?m=1

listener said...

Thanks, puddle! I'll want to check that out when I'm rested. I had two little grands today for 11 hours and am quite exhaustified!!

I mentioned earlier that Mama's cesarean is scheduled for Monday. Tonight we learned that the grandparents will hear on Monday that "mother and baby are well", but that is all. Gender, name and particulars won't be revealed until 5 yr old brother and 2 yr old sister come to the hospital with the 4 grandparents sometime the next day or day after that...whenever Mama feels up to it. I find that romantic and sweet. And I'm going to go crazy. I hope that no one else in the family being told the birth has happened until after the revealing doesn't spark bad feelings.


And hang onto your hats:

White House Eliminates Cybersecurity Coordinator Role
https://www.nytimes.com/2018/05/15/technology/white-house-cybersecurity.html

listener said...

Read it and LOVED it, puddle!! They sound like Bill and me! They must be Kindred Spirits.

XOXOXXX

puddle said...

I think they are, listener, indeed I do. Hope tomorrow turns out fine for all concerned. xox

listener said...

Grandbaby got born tonight!!!

Mother and baby are doing GREAT!!!

Gender will be revealed after the older siblings can visit the hospital and meet the little one, probably sometime late tomorrow. Stay tuned!

Pat said...

Happy for you and your family.

listener said...

Layla Marie weighed in at 8lbs!!!

WHAT JOY was experienced watching her siblings meet her for the first time!!! Photos when I can. So far Mom & Dad haven't posted any, so we sha'n't. Soon.

listener said...

And today 3rd grand turns 9!!!

puddle said...

Woohoo! On both counts!!

Both my local grands are coming for a visit on Friday. Sam's off for a semester in Ireland in a couple of weeks. And Tonio's going to finish up this year, we hope.

listener said...

Wow...college grands! (Won't be long, I suppose!) ENJOY!!


Big Sister is all about babies! When she held Baby Sister the first time and Baby began to fuss, Big Sister stayed entirely calm and coo'd "Don't worry; I'm here." And Baby stopped fussing...! 💕

Pat said...

Wonderful news, Listener.

Have a wonderful time with your grands, Puddle.

Love to you all.

listener said...

Ready for some sweetness? My new grandbaby:

https://www.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.10157369636596754&type=1&l=4039fa68f9

Pat said...

layla Marie looks like she's grinning. Now I'm grinning. Wonderful photo and Congratulations Grandma and Grandpa.

puddle said...

Oh, such a lovely time! Both boys have grown beards (father and son) and both look terrific! Kids fooled around the crick, tuckered out the dawg, and Tonio and I had a long talk. Daddy worked his butt off.

listener said...

What wonderful menfolks you have, puddle! Hearts of Gold have they!! 💛💛

listener said...

Well, guess what. I subbed at the Library today and my coworker told me that Erin has given her notice. Last Autumn a position opened there and I put in for it (no weekends, less hours than I used to work), but the Director decided not to give me the job because the dreaded Head Clerk is worse than ever to people, as her beloved ex-husband is much nearer death than he used to be (long cancer journey) and she really didn't want to put me through working with the woman again. So instead she hired Erin. Erin had never worked in the Library system and lives two towns away. So now, eight months later and all trained for the job, she is leaving to take a job with another, larger, library closer to home.

I was surprised. While I worked I pondered whether I'd want the job now. Of course, the same dreaded Head Clerk is still there and her ex-husband is even closer to death (though still ambulatory and not hospitalised, so not imminent either); so it wouldn't make sense for me to apply for the job anyway. It would take the Director inviting me to consider the position. And even then I might prefer to not do it.

But oh my goodness, it was a healing thing that the person she chose simply got trained and left!

listener said...

Oh, I forgot to mention that I hadn't worked there since last November, but the whole day went smoothly. I hadn't forgotten how to do it. Ha!

puddle said...

Big rain and cool as kin be. One phone line out. Will report it just before I go to bed when I have to switch back to phone. Fun.

Thought I'd lost Beau for about an hour last night. He'd been out, but no barks, so I went to look. And it appeared that the line on the post had somehow opened, and he was out. That arrangement usually leads to the cable getting caught somewhere, somehow. I have NO WAY to look for him. Called kid, who had no ideas. Decided to wait til sunrise, call Nancy and ask if she knew anyone I could pay to go looking. Lit a candle and went out one last time to call him. He was on the end of the porch. And stuck. Following the cable, it was actually still hooked, just fallen to the bottom of the post and pulled part way under so it couldn't be seen from the porch side. Relief and joy. And today rehooked it up higher.

Pat said...

So glad for you Puddle and Beau.

listener said...

=Whew! puddle!!=

Silly boy shoulda barked a few times!!

listener said...

One week postpartum, DIL's BP went way up. They have her BP med and it came down somewhat. But then she got a big headache. She thinks it's how she slept, but if it's not better by morning, or if it worsens, they'll call the doctor. I am all packed to go if summoned, and am going to sleep in my clothes. Heading to bed now.

Pat said...

HI Listener, I hope your DIL is doing better, hope you have gotten some rest. Thoughts your way. Love to you.

listener said...

Thank you, Pat! Yes to all.

I got the call at 3:27am to come and left by 3:40am. Tests confirmed that it was not the Sybil of Downton Abbey illness. It turned out that the docs had changed DIL's BP med the day before and it was causing the headache! So they switched her back to her former med, and increased it a little. They got home 5 hours later. I had not gotten back to sleep, so was running on about 3 hours of sleep. When I got home this afternoon (via grocery shopping!), I slept for a little over a half hour. So I'll be crashing into my pillow very soon.

But I got to hold new grandbaby again today and will see them all tomorrow too.

Meanwhile 10 year old granddaughter is here. While I was driving back from Son & DIL's house, she got word that her pet rabbit had suddenly simply died. The rabbit being only a year or so old, this was a big shock to everyone. So Grandad drove her home for the burial and back here (an hour each way).

It's been quite a day!

Pat said...

Thinking of you. You have a lot on your plate. Hope you can get some rest. Thank you for letting us share in your life.

listener said...

Thanks again, Pat. It means a lot to know there are such good women out there, thinking of me and hoping good my way.

Had another truly rough day. Grandad and Uncle took 10 year old Granddaughter to their sailing races tonight, but before the races even started they got T-boned by another boat. Truth is that my guys didn't have right of way AND that none of adults on either boat saw the other boat AND both groups have over 20 years of racing experience and the guy who T-boned them is an instructor! The only one of the 6 of them who saw the collision about to happen was Granddaughter. There was no time for anyone to react, except that, as the bow of the other boat was coming right at her, she wisely dove down into the boat. She was the only one injured, and that was only a floor burn. Could have been worse. But they lost a jib, ripped a mainsail, busted the stays and nearly lost the main! Chaos!

In the morning, I have to tell her that her young pet rat had a stroke and died tonight. This on top of her one year old pet rabbit dying on Tuesday (no one knows why). She has three more rats (two old and sickly), one more bunny, a cat, two kittens, and a pony, along with many other horses. Ah, but she loves each one so much. I think it's going to be a sad day. It's been a hard week, and no mistake, but I'm glad we could be together for those moments.

puddle said...

Ah, poor kiddo. That's a lot to lose in a week! ♥

Pat said...

Yes, to be together. It's love that matters and when we love each other, comfort each other, we can continue on. I'm so sorry for her losses.

listener said...

She took it well. I am so impressed with her inner strength and courage this week.

Two Harry Potter movies with very cool related snacks helped.

listener said...

I miss Shirlee.


Today I started an oil painting. So far I've done the sketching and imagining. But it will be a painting of my daughter's house, because as of this coming Wednesday she will have owned it for 10 years.

listener said...

I. enjoyed. a. relaxed. day.

puddle said...

River was over the bridge briefly yesterday, but down to about 98% of the culverts this morning, and no more rain. They've taken to watch away from us, blessedly.

puddle said...

THE watch

listener said...

That's what I was hoping you'd post, puddle!! 👍

listener said...

After more than 6 1/2 years with an iPhone 4S, today I upgraded to an iPhone 8. It's bigger, so won't fit as easily in pockets, but it is what it is, and anyway my eyes are only getting older. Ha! The best thing about the upgrade is that my favourite weather app had moved beyond my old phone's capability, but now I have it back! Hurrah!! It's the Storm Radar app from Weather Channel.

listener said...

☀️ It is H.O.T.. ☀️
We hit 95F today, and the record as 93F. Historical high is 80F and low is 60F so the historical average is 70F. Today? High of 95F, low of 75F and average of 85F. And the humidity is 63% and rising. =Bleh!=

puddle said...

https://www.treehugger.com/cleaning-organizing/tsundoku-practice-buying-more-books-you-can-read.html

Pat said...

Yes, indeed. Tsundoku fits and that's my reality. Thank you, Puddle.

listener said...

C'mon Ohio, Kansas, Michigan, Missouri and Washington!!

I am watching returns with great interest. The Ohio House seat is possible, but the tally is narrowing.

Vermont's Primary is next Tuesday. Yesterday I stopped at the local post office to mail a package and who should arrive with me but Jessica, our Town Clerk. She asked me to help count the vote, so I'll be working at the polls 6:30pm to about 8:30pm...which works out perfectly for me!

listener said...

I agree:

"Even when reading is impossible, the presence of books acquired produces such an ecstasy that the buying of more books than one can read is nothing less than the soul reaching towards infinity." – A. Edward Newton, author, publisher, and collector of 10,000 books.

Count me in!

My view is that when I die, I will have my papers in order and my books on shelves in proper order too. Maybe some of my children and grandchildren will take a few of the books and read them. I consider that leaving a legacy.

puddle said...

New thread!